The word ‘devotions’ is in quotes because it appears just one time in the Bible and that connected with idol worship! (Acts 17:23) But we all know the term and, if you have children, have probably either struggled with it, or given up.
It is vitally important for parents to plan a time in the Bible with their children every day. It is like private prayer. We can say we will ‘pray without ceasing’ throughout the day, but if we don’t have a time each day to get started, that probably won’t happen. So Family Bible time opens up teachable moments throughout the day.
The first struggle we face is knowing when to do it. Our most successful times came just before or after a meal. We were together and that is the time to focus the family on the Lord through Scripture and prayer.
Next we wonder what to do during that time. This is especially difficult when the children are a variety of ages. More on this next time. Here are some ideas we have found profitable in the past.
1) Plan. Don’t gather everyone and then say, “Well, what should we read today?” If you know the needs of your family, you will want to focus on Scripture that deals with those needs. You direct the time.
2) Read the Bible. If you use a Bible storybook, be sure to read at least a portion of the story in the Bible. That alone is our authority. Sometimes the stories add details that aren’t in the Bible or leave out important facts. The narrative portions of the Bible are especially delightful to the younger ones. Let each one who is able read a verse. This lets everyone participate even if he doesn’t yet have profound thoughts to share.
3) Interact. Ask questions appropriate to the age of each child. Have visuals when possible for the younger ones. Expect each child to respect his peers by giving him attention when he is speaking.
4) Be brief. Better is it to wish the time were longer than to be bored and lose their attention while you wax on, explaining deep spiritual treasures.
5) Sing together. The old hymns are rich in doctrine and make a great study in themselves.
6) Close in family prayer. Teach your children to pray. Keep a notebook of specific prayer requests and leave a space to write the answer in red when God gives it. This is a wonderful faith encourager!
7) Be realistic. I really liked the picture of the family, sitting around the fireplace, each with Bible in hand, fully attentive and hungry to learn from Father. However, I never was able to attain that ideal. Remember, you are sowing in their lives and that is work. The reward comes when you see them going on for God as adults, and having ‘family devotions’ with your grandchildren.